Oh, wow, I just had a huge revelation.
Out of all of us, dysfunctionals, there are mainly two types:
- Types who process their dysfunction by hurting themselves.
- Types who process their dysfunction by hurting others.
Now, don’t get me wrong, I do know a good bit about psychology and I know this revelation is not my own. I have no doubt there are many articles published in psychology journals and the DSM’s about this, but I have never “fleshed it out” in real life, real-time scenarios.
Personally, I would fall into the first category. The people who make me sick, even though I know they are just as, if not more, dysfunctional than me, fall into the second.
I have never been able to understand the second group until this morning.
I still can’t stand the second group, but now that I understand the psychology of their behavior, maybe I will be able to get over the shit they do to hurt me, much, much more easily.
And, to be fair, I have to admit that group one ultimately hurts people the most, because we do it, while saying we love a person (and we probably really do because in my experience, the people I love the most are the ones I hurt the most) either in an effort to manipulate, or we are just need our high and will go to any means to get it.
NO, YOU CATEGORY TWO WHORE, I AM NOT ON DRUGS….but you need to be.
Category Two’s get high straight from the act of hurting others.
Category Two’s get loaded BY FUCKING PEOPLE OVER.
Fuck category twos…just fuck yourselves over, you narcissistic fucks.